I MANIFESTED A LIVE-IN CAREGIVER, MASSEUSE & CHEF!

 
WENDY & JAVA

WENDY & JAVA

I’ve been an Abraham Hicks practitioner for over 10 years now! Pulling into the front row parking spot at Costco on Christmas morning has become expected. Opening the mailbox and finding checks for thousands of dollars is my new normal. Marrying my soulmate, finding the community and house of my dreams has been amazing!

EVERYTHING REALLY DOES WORK OUT FOR ME!

I’ve gone from penniless to being a multi-millionaire. It’s been an awesome ride and I’m loving life! Of course, there have been times of contrast and moments of despair, but all that was Pain With A Purpose! Overall it’s just been an amazing trajectory of AWESOMENESS! Whatever it is that I’m wanting, comes to me at exactly the time I’m ready to receive it!. And this week has been no exception!

I’m gonna back up up bit to bring this amazing latest development into focus!

About 12 years ago I was a struggling single mother of two young teenagers. I was working as a showroom designer for DR Horton. I was starting to make good money and life was beginning to improve. Then a friend introduced me to the Abraham-Hicks programs and the Law of Attraction. WOW! A life changing experience that continued to make my life better and better. It really is true that the better you feel, the better you feel and the better life gets! Check-out My Story in the drop down menu for all the details of my journey.

Two years later, I married my darling, Norman and things really took off! My soulmate took my hand and we launched a new life together in Palos Verdes, CA.

Norman didn’t have any kids or drama, but soon after we were married we discovered that he did have Alzheimer’s disease and his dementia was progressing rapidly. I knew in my heart that I was in Norman’s life to care for him, I just didn’t expect it to be in this way.

LAST CHRISTMAS

LAST CHRISTMAS

We had a gorgeous mid-century modern home overlooking the ocean, with Norman’s Bentley in the driveway! We called it the LOVE SHACK! We made so many wonderful friends there! I never imagined we would leave.

I’m a very active person. I love to play tennis, pickleball, ski, golf, kayak, sail, hike, swim and generally jump around a lot! I love to socialize, but I also enjoy lots of quiet time! I’m super creative and have lots of projects spinning around in my mad scientist mind! Whooo Hooo!

Norman is elegant, poised, thoughtful, well-mannered and always waits to be properly introduced. My job in our relationship is to jump in and introduce him! We make a great team.

Norman’s condition was progressing and was becoming increasingly clear that our LOVE SHACK was not going to be our forever home. We were isolated.

A dear friend suggested we checkout Bend, OR. We had never been to Bend. We didn’t know anything about it! It was crazy! Our friends in PV thought I needed to seek professional help, because clearly Norman wasn’t the only one loosing his mind.

As we got on the plane, I turned to Norman and said “You’ve never knowingly participated in my Law of Attraction practice, but I want you to trust me and know that there’s a strong possibility that we are going to find exactly what we are wanting the first time! So buckleup darling!”

That dreary weekend in November we found the perfect house in the perfect community. A month after moving in, I found the perfect part time caregiver for Norman, so I could jump around and do what I love to do and Norman can enjoy his quiet time too. Three months later we moved my mother in with us, which solved a ton of other problems.

IT WAS JUST SOOOO RIGHT!

When we bought our home in Bend, one of the things I really liked about it was that it had the perfect accommodations for a possible Live-in Caregiver. PERFECT! A separate entrance and an entertainment area with a small kitchen just for them on the lower level. The house is over 5,000 sq ft with the master and main living quarters on the first floor, so we wouldn’t be impacted by them at all.

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My goal is to keep Norman home and care for him in the most comfortable environment possible. We’ve made wonderful friends and have an awesome life! Loosing one’s mind is a terrifying process, but Norman is doing it with grace and dignity and I want to keep it that way.

Last December, we unexpectedly lost our little doggy, Dolly. It was a real blow to our lives. My mother also passed away in October. We were ready for that and so was she. We were not ready for Dolly to leave. Norman in particular misses his little ball of fluff to snuggle with him.

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Norman’s dementia has been steadily progressing. He has started to wander and getting his days and nights turned around. It is becoming more and more difficult for me to care for him even with our amazing part-time caregiver. I was getting concerned about the next steps.

We even thought about downsizing to ensure funds would be available for Norman to live to be 150. We put the house on the market and got some very interested buyers. But the minute the FOR SALE sign went up, I knew it was not the right thing to do! We took it down and we both felt so much better.

The day after we took the FOR SALE sign down, I got a text from an acquaintance, Gina. I see her at Pickleball once in a while, she’s a super nice woman and we have a mutual friend who knows Gina very well. I don’t talk to Gina regularly other than have a great day on the courts! So, it was kinda weird that I got a text from her.

Gina’s text said, “Hey, I have a friend, Wendy who’s looking for a live-in caregiver situation and I thought of you!” OH MY GAWD! “Oh, by the way, she’s a masseuse and has a therapy dog!” WHAAAAT!!!,

THANK YOU UNIVERSE!

Wendy and I text back and forth and it really seems like it’s a good fit! We are gonna have a trial run the middle of April.

I called my BFF to tell her “OH MY GAWD - THE UNIVERSE DELIVERED AGAIN! The only thing that could be better is if Wendy could cook!” I kid you not, within 5 minutes I get a text from Wendy “Oh, by the way I love to cook and have my own pasta machine!”

DID I MENTION SHE’S A MASSEUSE AND HAS A THERAPY DOG!

Next on my MANIFESTATION list:

  • A SPONSORED MEMBERSHIP ON A PRIVATE PLANE PROGRAM

  • A PUBLISHING PARTNER FOR THE GUIDE TO LIVING IN ABUNDANCE!

  • AND A REAL ESTATE DEVELOPER IN TAMARINDO, COSTA RICA!

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO MANIFEST?

SIGN UP BY 4/15/19 TO BE A TEST PILOT FOR MY BETA LAUNCH OF THE GUIDE TO LIVING IN ABUNDANCE.

I’M ACCEPTING 15 PEOPLE WHO ARE SERIOUS ABOUT REACHING FOR THE STARS!

 
THE DESIGN DOCTOR